I Can Sleep Through a Thunder Storm!

Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.

Matthew 6

The story is told of a farmer who needed to hire a farm hand to help with the work.  While interviewing one fellow, he asked what his qualifications were.  The fellow responded, “I can sleep through a thunderstorm.”  The farmer thought this an odd response but decided to hire him anyway.  

It was not long before this very scenario came to pass.  A thunderstorm arose during the night and the farmer attempted to awake the farm hand to help secure things.  He could not raise him.  So the farmer commenced to check the barn.  It was already locked and secured.  He checked on the animals.  They were in their stalls.  All was found to be secure and in place so the farmer returned to bed.

When I first heard this story told as a young boy, I thought, wow, that farm hand was quite an amazing weatherman to look at the sky and predict the future weather and what plans needed to be made.  Later, I came to believe that it taught the need to plan for every possible outcome and anticipate that.  But the years have taught me better.  Beyond the physical preparations there are the meta-physical preparations or the things beyond the material world.  It is our thought preparations that matter most.

When the unexpected enters our lives, if we have learned to train our minds, we will not remain awake all night trying to solve the unsolvable and control the uncontrollable.  We will sleep with the peace that exists beyond all words.  Wisdom will have taught us what to let go of and how to treat all things equitably.  If we understand how the mind works, we will not allow it to be the source of our suffering.  Be it a new medical diagnosis for ourselves or a loved one, or a turn of events in our work and daily life, we are not unraveled. 

Recently we had a dear friend come to stay with us for the weekend.  Her thunderstorm was a letter from a loved one that had attacked her most unfairly.  She read the letter again and again and then shared it with others and gained a lot of sympathetic support for the unfairness of it all.  By ruminating upon this letter and turning it every which way but loose, she found she was unable to sleep that night through her own thunderstorm.  Instead, she found herself “stirring the pot” throughout the night. 

There were some other choices that she could have applied.  Rather than “chemicalizing” her body with negative responses to this letter, she could have replaced those thoughts with loving kindness and confirmed what she knew was good and true about the letter writer.  Or she could have remembered that “miserable people spread their misery” and felt compassion for another in suffering.  But this all requires mental preparation and mental training to replace one thought with another rather than be buffeted by the storms’ own arrows.   

 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.
Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day;Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday.

                                               Psalms 91

If we are not prepared to control the thoughts that we think, we are not ready for the thunderstorms that will pass through in our lives.  The tape-loops that we play over and over in our minds bear the fruit that we enjoy when we retire to bed each night.  Why?  Because “as is the seed, so is the fruit.” And that is one of the best arguments I can make for learning to meditate effectively; learning how to sleep through a thunderstorm.

“The Buddha spoke about eleven benefits that come from loving kindness.  The first three are ‘One goes to sleep happily, one dreams no evil dreams, and one wakes happily.’  If anybody has difficulty falling asleep, you can be sure it is because of a lack of loving-kindness, and sleeping pills don’t answer this problem.  Lovingness does.  

Then the subconscious also doesn't act in an unpleasant way so there are no evils dreams, no nightmares, and one wakes with the same feeling that one had on going to bed, namely the same loving thoughts toward all beings as one had the previous day.” BEING NOBODY, GOING NOWHERE by Ayya Khema